The Appy Mare

Why it All Matters

10. Understanding a Loss of Try and How to Restore it

The appy lady and her mare had been experimenting in various ways with many moments of notable connection and successful presentations through feel.  Much progress was made, but with a kind of staccato in which the moments did not flow together for the whole to be seen.  One afternoon is not so much time, when you first dive into this. I wondered if the appy mare could help me help her owner see the bigger picture a little better, before we finished. 

I simply asked the appy mare to go out onto a circle. Then I released her to a trot from a spot on the wall 15ft behind her. She moved off willingly for a stride or two. . . as she also shifted her weight down and forward in the transition, and ultimately stopped her feet within the next few strides. I could have added some pressure, and she may have kept going if she could, but her posture did not support that. I asked the appy lady why she thought her mare had stopped. “Does this look like a spot where your mare plants her feet and says ‘no’, as you described?” It was. Could she see that the mare was standing downhill with a slight tightening in her back and base of the neck? This was a new level of observation for the lady, but she could see it now.